Friday, April 24, 2026

The Illness and Injury Years - Val's Story, Chapter 5

(At least she didn't try downhill skiing.)

I know all kids go through illnesses and injuries, but Val sure had more than her share.

          When she was just a year old, Nick woke up one morning with an itchy rash which quickly turned into painful pustules. The year was 1991, when the vaccine against chicken pox was still being studied in American labs. This was also the time when all responsible moms sent their kids to whoever’s house had a chickenpox outbreak, so their kids could get it and get it “over with”. I was glad Nick contracted it then, before he started kindergarten in a few weeks. 

          And even though his sister was only a year old, I was relieved when a week or so later, she broke out as well.

          Four years later, a few days after she started kindergarten, I got the first call from the school nurse. “Val hit her head on the playground. She says her head hurts, but otherwise seems fine. I still recommend you take her to the hospital after school to get checked out.”

          Hours and an MRI later, the ER doctor confirmed she had a mild concussion and gave me the usual instructions of what to watch for. She was a little sick to her stomach that night, and the headache continued for a few days. It slowed her down for a while, but that was okay. She needed to slow down.

          The following fall, within a week of school starting, the school nurse called again. Val was throwing up. I sighed into the phone; this was becoming a trend. And it was.

          In August 1997, my sister Pat took the kids and me camping in Michigan’s UP. We had a great time, all of us tromping through the woods, making s’mores over the campfire, and sleeping in the pop-up camper.

          About a month later, Val came home from school more tired than usual. At bedtime, she told me she was too achy to even get her pajamas on by herself. I pulled her t-shirt off over her head, and what I saw on her chest and back told me immediately what was wrong with her. A round welt the size of a small saucer on one side of her chest and a larger one on her back.

          If you don’t live in northern Wisconsin or some other thickly wooded area, you might have been alarmed or at least confused. After working in the medical field for ten years and seeing many patients with this same illness, I had never seen it with quite such a remarkable presentation. But I still knew in a second. She had Lyme’s Disease.

          The next day, after Val had her blood drawn, the lab tech told me that the test turned bright pink instantly, faster than anyone else’s had, confirming what we already knew.

          This time, I called the school nurse to let her know that Val might be out for a few days until her symptoms abated and she felt better.

          My poor little girl finally had a reprieve of a few years until September 14, 2001.

          It was a sunny Sunday afternoon. Nick was mowing the lawn on the riding mower, and Val was riding her bike around the yard. Hubby and I were doing something in the front yard when Nick yelled out, “Val’s screaming.” He pointed to the side of the house.

(Picture not taken that particular day, but all this padding would not have helped anyway.)

          We ran to find her crumpled underneath her bike, howling in pain. We carefully picked her up, and she grabbed her arm.

          Just like that tell-tale Lyme’s rash, Hubby and I both knew right away what was wrong. Forever after, he said her right forearm looked like the kid who broke his arm in one of the Harry Potter movies. Floppy. Okay, that’s overly dramatic, but the middle of her arm truly was bent back noticeably.

          I grabbed the car keys from the house while her step-dad carried her to the car. We left Nick alone, still mowing the lawn and probably unaware.

          The doctor once again confirmed what I already knew and what the X-ray showed. She had broken and displaced both the ulna and radius bones in her forearm.

          We were sent to the hospital in the next town over, one that had an orthopedic surgeon on call. He gave her some sedation, set her arm, and wrapped it in a cast from her fingertips to halfway up her shoulder.

          For six weeks, with her right arm in a sling, she learned to write, eat, and brush her teeth with her left arm. It would be one skill that served her well over the years. When she got contact lenses a few years later, she learned to put them in each eye at the same time, using her left hand for the left eye and her right hand for the right.

          It seemed that finally the curse was broken, at least for a while.

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